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		<title>It&#8217;s Not You, It&#8217;s&#8230;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever had someone end a relationship with that cliché “It’s not you it’s me”?  What a line huh?  You’re like come on already, just be real with me!  Have the courage to level with me, instead of feeding me this drivel.


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever had someone end a relationship with that cliché “It’s not you it’s me”?&#160; What a line huh?&#160; You’re like come on already, just be real with me!&#160; Have the courage to level with me, instead of feeding me this drivel.&#160; </p>
<h6><img src="http://humancipate.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/itsnotyouints.jpg" /> <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/shutter/105497713/sizes/l/" target="_blank">[Photo Credit]</a></h6>
<p>Let’s face it, sometimes relationships don’t work because there are some differences that cannot be resolved.</p>
<ul>
<li>Different values related to key relationship issues (monogamy, marriage, parenting, etc.) </li>
<li>Different values related to key world issues (politics, justice, race, etc.) </li>
<li>Different values related to key household issues (finances, cleaning, lifestyle, etc.) </li>
<li>Or it’s some weird combination of all three.&#160; </li>
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<p>But sometimes, relationships don’t work out, simply because that cliché <strong><u>is</u></strong> true.&#160; If you dig a little deeper you may find that in some scenarios, the phrase might read best as, “<strong>It’s not you, it’s youth</strong>”.&#160; </p>
<p>It wouldn’t be news to anyone if I told you that there were some 30, 40 &amp; 50 year old children runnin’ loose all over the planet.&#160; I’m not trying to judge any one, but there’s plenty of evidence that maturity and age don’t travel on synchronous, parallel tracks.&#160; I’ve met immature people all across the age spectrum.</p>
<p>Sometimes that inner adolescent in all of us, grabs a hold of the decision making reigns and interesting things happen.&#160; I certainly can recall ending a couple of relationships in ways that still make me cringe!&#160; I’ll spare you the details to protect the innocent!</p>
<p>So if you’ve heard those fateful words, don’t fret!&#160; Live your life and know that the only opinion of you that truly matters is your own.</p>
<blockquote><p><img style="border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px" border="0" alt="Napoleon Hill" align="left" src="http://humancipate.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/napoleonhill.jpg" width="96" height="100" /> &quot;Opinions are the cheapest commodities on earth.&quot;</p>
<p><span>- <strong>Napoleon Hill</strong>         <br /><em>American Author</em></span></p>
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